Kids might not host food blogs or be stars on the Food Network, but when it comes to being picky eaters, they’re some of the hardest food critics around. As a parent, you know the drill—spending countless hours trying to get your child to eat anything besides their favorite chicken nuggets or fries. It’s draining, especially when they see any new food as the enemy.
While it’s tempting to let them eat their favorite foods forever, eventually, they need to try something that’s not fried. This brings up the big question for parents: when should you insist they try new things, and when should you just let them have what they want?
The trick is not to turn mealtimes into battles. Forcing your child to eat the one vegetable they despise usually doesn’t work and just creates stress. Instead, consistently offer a variety of healthy foods. With time, they’ll likely find some new foods they like. Be patient—some kids need several tries before they start to like a new food. Don’t get discouraged too quickly.
Here are a few tips to help expand your child’s food choices:
### The Vegetable Challenge
How many times has your child claimed to hate vegetables without even tasting them? It’s frustrating but normal. Vegetables can have strong smells or flavors that might put off a child with sensitive taste buds.
Instead of getting upset, let your child explore at their own pace. They might want to look at or smell the vegetable first, and yes, they might spit it out. That’s okay. Stay calm, and try again another day.
One way to make veggies less daunting is to involve your child in the selection process. Take them grocery shopping or let them choose which vegetable to have for dinner. When they feel like they have a say, they’re often more willing to try new things—and it’s harder to refuse something they picked out themselves!
Additionally, offer a variety of vegetables. If green ones aren’t a hit, try red, orange, or even purple ones. A bit of trial and error can help you find veggies your child is more willing to eat (or maybe even enjoy!).
### The Sweet Tooth Struggle
If your child loves sweets, you’re probably battling over sugary cereals at breakfast, finding lunchboxes with only the cookies eaten, and facing constant requests for dessert at dinner. Sound familiar? Many parents feel like managing a sugar-loving child is a never-ending challenge.
But there are ways to manage their sweet cravings more healthily. Swap sugary snacks for naturally sweet ones like apple slices, grapes, or low-fat yogurt. These options can satisfy their sweet tooth while providing some nutrition.
Another tip? Keep fewer sugary treats in the house. If the candy isn’t there, it’s easier to say no. Also, try not to use sweets as rewards. It may seem like an easy win short-term, but it sets the expectation that dessert is the ultimate prize for eating other foods. Sweets can be part of a balanced diet, but they shouldn’t be the main motivator.
In the end, broadening your picky eater’s palate is about patience, creativity, and letting them explore food in their own way. It won’t happen overnight, but with consistent effort, it will improve. And who knows? Someday, they might even surprise you by asking for seconds of zucchini.