Finding out your mother has Alzheimer’s is incredibly tough. I felt devastated, but there was also a sense of relief knowing we had a diagnosis and could start seeking the right help. It’s not just about medical treatments, though. I soon realized there were many ways I could support her, so I dove into research to find ways to make my mum happy and assist her as much as possible. The Internet became an invaluable resource, full of great ideas and connecting me with others in similar situations.
Simple Activities That Make a Big Difference
One of the best things that helped both my mum and our family were small, engaging activities. These activities don’t take much time but can make a huge difference. They help distract from the illness and keep the mind focused. We spend quality time together, often taking turns with other family members, making these moments enjoyable for everyone. These activities are designed to help improve my mum’s mind, memory, and skills, keeping her active and responsive in a positive way.
One effective method we found was using memory games. We started with memory cards, which were similar to the ones I used with my toddler. There are fantastic cards that help jog her memory, like the 1940s-themed cards. They sparked interesting conversations and memories—not just for her but for all of us. For instance, a photo of a haircut led to a delightful 40-minute chat.
Enhancing Communication Through Memory Aids
In addition to puzzles, another great tool has been memory books. When my mum is hesitant to talk, I bring out a memory book, and we go through the pages together. This helps break down the isolation and encourages her to open up. The books are simple, yet they are colorful, engaging, and feature large print. Alzheimer’s and dementia are challenging diseases, but these small activities help to lift the darkness and bring some much-needed light to tough times.